Intimacy, Sexuality and Sjogren's Syndrome. Sjogren's National Conference 2015

In comments and feedback to the Sjogren's Society of Canada members have indicated a wish to hear more about a topic that is usually kept in the closet - intimacy. In 2015 we had a great speaker who gave us useful information about intimacy and sexuality.

Many of us have brought this issue up during doctor visits and have found that many health care providers seem to be uncomfortable with this topic and do not offer much advice. 

Since this is so crucial to maintaining our relationships, we were happy to hear Iris Zink, a Rheumatology Nurse Practitioner and President of the Rheumatology Nurses Society, speak on the topic of "Intimacy, Sexuality and Sjogren's Syndrome." Her advice sounded excellent for people with any chronic disease.

Normally she lectures to audiences of health care professionals across the United States. In her role at the Beals Institute she is known as "the sex lady" and I think we may have been her first audience of patients.

I elect Iris Zink as our most memorable and original speaker ever. 

When I first noticed her in the room on the morning of the Conference I wondered about her red and silver boots but I had no idea that underneath her ordinary white jacket she was wearing a Wonder Woman cape.

  Note the pointer in Iris's right hand

Her no-nonsense talk was straightforward and clear - we can't keep treating Intimacy and sexuality as the elephant in the room. Embarrassment on the part of the patient and healthcare provider results in no discussion.

Elephant in the room

It was too bad her audience wasn't bigger. She got her message across in a very compelling way - so much so that if Iris wrote a book I would give copies away as a public service. Her lecture was helpful for patient and provider communication, as well as for patients and their spouses.

She told us that 66% of patients with hip and back Osteoarthritis, 62% with Rheumatoid Arthritis and 71% with Fibromyalgia have difficulties with sexual problems. 

She stressed that we should accept what we've got, and told us the brain is 90% of sex, the skin only 10%. Her presentation went over well with the mixed audience. 

The main issue is how we start the conversation and how we communicate with each other. For instance: Complete this sentence - "I miss ............." when you and your partner discuss intimacy. Talk, touch and practice. She defined sex as the ultimate union of the body and the mind.

Don't forget your Kegel exercises, men too. She suggested doing Kegels 30 minutes before sex to increase the blood flow to that part of the body. 

Her talk was optimistic and empowering. Most of the people in the room were smiling at the uninhibited style and the anecdotes and cartoons that drew us in. 

We were even given homework to do with our partners:
1. Talk to one another
2. Spend 30 minutes touching each other without intercourse or orgasm
3. If you are interested in steamy sex talk you have to practice.
4. Know your body and what makes you aroused
5. Date!!! Make it a priority!

All who wanted came home with catalogs so that we could have a look at some of the possible intimacy enhancing products.

References:

Iris Zink wrote an article called "A Rheumatologic Perspective on Intimacy and Chronic Illness" for The Rheumatologist - an official publication of the American College of Rheumatology (ACR).

A study by Bitzer and Platano that Iris referenced concluded that "sexual problems are frequent in many clinical conditions, but are not yet a routine part of diagnostic workup and therapeutic planning." She mentioned that 40% of ObGyns don't ask about sexual function.

Empower Yourself at the 9th Annual Sjogren's Conference!!

It's spring almost everywhere and time for the National Conference held by the Sjogren's Society of Canada.  "Empower Yourself" is the name of the conference. We'll be exploring current findings along with the "elephants in the room" to help you manage better. Presentations on new topics of Fatigue and Intimacy and Sexuality in Sjogren's will be discussed. 

Our Spring Crocuses are not up yet.

There is a great deal of evidence that suggests that patient knowledge, skill and confidence with managing chronic disease is a good indicator of better outcomes.

Lately I've seen Sjogren's Syndrome spelled many different ways: Sourjons, Soujgrens,Sjorgen's and Sojourns, all by different people who suspected this was a diagnosis that they would be adding to their other autoimmune disease(s). You can only imagine how difficult their searches for accurate information are going to be.

The upcoming National Sjogren's Conference will be a great way for both patients and health care professionals to learn more reliable facts. All you need to do to attend is register and come to the Delta London Armouries Hotel in London, Ontario on May 2. Health care professionals who attend are eligible for continuing education credits.



I am planning to take notes and post what I learn as I have in the past. Our conference has a distinctive special feature. For one hour the speakers and other volunteer heath professionals from Sjogren's related fields will host round table talks where attendees have a chance to ask personally relevant questions.  It's great to have that opportunity and also interesting to hear about the problems others face. Sometimes they match your problems.

Here's a quick overview of the speakers and their topics.

Dr. Arthur Bookman, the co-ordinator of the Multidisciplinary Sjogren's Clinic at Toronto Western Hospital and co-chair of the Sjogren's Canada Medical Advisory Board will start the program with "An Overview of Sjogren's Syndrome." He will tell us how it is diagnosed, the major manifestations and the impact it has on a patient's quality of life.

The next presentation is from Dr. Rookya Mather. She is the Associate Professor of Ophthalmology at the Ivey Eye Institute at Western University. Her topic is Understanding and Managing Dry Eye Disease and she'll be helping us to understand Dry Eye and how this affects those who live with it and have to manage it every day. Many of her patients have complex ocular surface problems.

We are excited to see Dr. Ava Wu at our conference for the first time ever. She is a Professor and researcher in the Department of Orofacial Services and has seen thousands of patients at the Sjogren's Clinic at the University of California, San Francisco where she is the Director.   Lately, she is also the co-author (with Dr. Troy E. Daniels, DDS, MS) of Chapter 16, "The Dry Mouth" in the newest "The Sjogren's Book" - Fourth Edition.  She sees patients as part of the International Sjogren's Syndrome Registry (International Collaborative Clinical Alliance (SICCA))

This year Dr. Arthur Bookman has added a new topic - "Fatigue and Sjogren's Syndrome"  This is one of the most disabling features of Sjogren's Syndrome" He will explore the possible causes, ways to minimize fatigue and promising new medications.

In comments made over the years members have indicated a wish to hear more about one of those topics that is usually kept in the closet. I have brought it up a few times but most Doctors seem to be uncomfortable with it and do not offer much advice. Since intimacy and all it implies is so crucial to maintaining relationships we will be happy to hear Iris Zink, a Rheumatology Nurse Practitioner and President Elect of the of the Rheumatology Nurses Society speak on the topic of "Intimacy, Sexuality and Sjogrens's Syndrome."

"What's New In Dry Eye Products?" This talk by C. Lisa Prokopich, OD, MSc, Optometrist and Head of the Ocular Health Clinic at the University of Waterloo School of Optometry and Vision Science will inform the audience of recent advances in pharmaceuticals and products to treat dry eye.

Glad to say my eye is never this red

After we hear from Dr. Prokopich the round table discussions occur. 

Our next speaker is Dr. Rami Abo-Shasha. His topic is "Corneal Neuralgia in Sjogren's Syndrome, A Brief Overview." I think we will all learn something new from Dr. Abo-Shasha. This is a problem that I was not previously aware of despite years with Sjogren's. It was also daunting to learn that this is not easily recognized by many doctors, so patients can spend a lot of time looking for a diagnosis.

Dryness of the mucous membranes is a hallmark of Sjogren's Syndrome

The final speaker of the day is Dr. Leslie Laing, "Saying "Treats" and Other Mouth-Watering Suggestions" who will discuss research findings on the oral aspects of Sjogren's including these areas: oroofacial altered sensation; the effects of the disorder on the quality of life; the outcome of usage of various oral moisturizers and non traditional products such as green tea, licorice root, xylitol,and virgin coconut oil. 

This is the 9th Annual Conference and is for patients and for health care professionals.  You can register at the Sjogren's Society of Canada website

Physician Accredited Conference

The Sjogren’s Society of Canada is pleased to announce that the 2015 National Conference is an Accredited Group Learning Activity (Section 1) as defined by the Maintenance of Certification program of The Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada.  This activity was approved by the Canadian Rheumatology Association.      7 M.O.C credits.

 THIS CONFERENCE IS INTENDED FOR INTERNISTS, PHYSICIANS, RHEUMATOLOGISTS, DENTISTS,  OPHTHALMOLOGISTS, OTOLARYNGOLOGISTS, OPTOMETRISTS, HYGIENISTS AND PATIENTS

The conference is a CE for dentists, hygienists and healthcare professionals – PACE accredited, 7 CE credits.