If you are at or near a hospital you could check on whether there is a patient library. If you make this a starting point the librarian can direct you to publications and pamphlets that are on hand, and also recommend some internet sites that are reputable and understandable. One advantage with a patient library is the variety of languages - they try to accommodate all patients in the language they are most comfortable with, another is the intelligent interest that the staff takes to help you.
Paul B. Helliwell Patient and Family Library at Toronto Western Hospital
You need to start somewhere and you don't want to waste your time on sites that try to sell you products that are both very expensive and ineffective. Don't forget, even a placebo (non-active version of medication) "cures" some people. If it sounds too good to be true, it is.
Models in the patient library
The information from the doctor and hospital library should give you some ideas for further reading as well. It will help you a lot to know the "vocabulary" of the disease. Next time you go to an appointment you will understand more and ask better questions if you know the correct terms.
It is helpful to keep a record of your appointments, procedures, treatments and lab reports. A loose-leaf binder is good. It can expand as you need. Another necessary item is an up-to-date list of all of your medications with dosages. Take these with you to all medical appointments. Here is a link to a post by Lisa Bonchek Adams about the way she uses her binder.
Another place to find information and possible support is the website of the national organization specific to your disease (best for common problems, less helpful for rare disease). As an example The Arthritis Society in Canada has information, videos and 'Taking Charge of Arthritis' programs as well as physiotherapists, occupational therapists, social workers and online community. Sites like that are a big help.
When looking at internet sites those that are .gov or .org are usually the most reliable.
Other health care professionals also are a good way to collect more info and ideas. If you see a physiotherapist or an occupational therapist they also have a little more time to look at You and help with encouragement and relevant personalized advice.
There are many patient groups that you can join but finding a good one can take time. I have benefited from advice and support on Rheumatoid Arthritis, Shingles, Sjogren's Syndrome and Fuchs Dystrophy to name a few. You often find a member or moderator who is a "patient expert" in these groups. Good ones usually point out that any advice they or the group offer is not medical advice so you should check with a doctor. Here is a Point of view blog post by Dr David Lee Scher about Online Patient Communities.
Often when you want to complain or talk about a problem you might not want to make those close to you worry more. Sharing with virtual friends takes pressure off of your real life relationships.
In any health category there are people who stand out clearly as well-informed patients and it's worth learning from them. They go further than just trying to help themselves. They share information and they advocate for more research, better treatment and change for the good.
Glastonbury Maze
With online communities you should make an attempt to find out who is behind the site and what the privacy policies are. That helps you find out the motive for the existence of the group. In Yahoo health groups as an example, you know that Yahoo hosts groups to deliver advertising for sponsors. That's clear cut. If you can't find a sponsor name when you look for it, it could be that the payoff for the sponsor is the information you provide.
Here are some bonus tips from good friends in my online support group. We've known each other for many years now.
Here's one from Roze:
"I learned early that my health was my responsibility. I don't go to doctors who don't listen to me and if I have a question I research it and ask my doctor for his opinion. When it's down to the wire for a decision on my care I realize it is my choice and my call."
Lulu
And great tips from Julie too
"For many years, I thought doctors were "God" and
believed everything that they told me and went along with their
suggestions. I found out when my Mother was ill that some treatments probably weren't necessary or helpful and just caused
suffering.
I decided then to become more informed. I
bought some medical books and carefully read them. A man that I worked
with that had ties to a big Medical Facility had the Merck
Manual. Although most of the language was for physicians, I could decipher
most of the information. The more I learned, the more I discovered that
there were usually alternatives.
When I first got RA, I didn't know anything about
the disease. I took every pamphlet from the rheumatologists office and
read each one thoroughly (I still have them after 20+ years).
NOW - there is the internet
with tons of information on any subject that you might like to know more
about. I am kind of a researcher anyway, so I spent quite a bit of time
researching different health problems and medications.
I no longer submit to unneeded treatments or
tests. I learned that you can refuse a procedure if you want to do
that. Sometimes, I think physicians recommend tests just because they own
the equipment and can make money by using them.
When I go to a physician with a problem, I research
the problem first so that I will be somewhat knowledgeable. Then, instead
of giving the doctor MY diagnosis, I let him first tell me what he/she thinks
the problem is and how to treat it. I was guilty of going in and telling
doctors what I thought was wrong and how to proceed. After all, I am paying the
doctor for his medical education and experience. If I disagree, then I
will mention that perhaps another treatment might be better and see what the
expert says. I believe that people have to look out for themselves when it
comes to medical care.
A brilliant professor that I had in college told
his students to "pick other peoples brains". I always try to do that and
get information that I otherwise would not know. I think that nurses that
work in hospitals always have good suggestions and know who the best doctors
are."
I particularly like Julie's last 2 paragraphs.
This is not a comprehensive list of suggestions. Feel free to add more in the comments. One thing missing is the knowledge and confidence you can gain by volunteering. Here's a link to my blog post called Volunteering With RA and another that talks about how volunteering expands your sense of time.
I particularly like Julie's last 2 paragraphs.
This is not a comprehensive list of suggestions. Feel free to add more in the comments. One thing missing is the knowledge and confidence you can gain by volunteering. Here's a link to my blog post called Volunteering With RA and another that talks about how volunteering expands your sense of time.
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